Monday, May 21, 2007

Some things to consider before divorce.

First Posted at 20:51, Tuesday, April 26, 2005

Hamfingimani - 09:46pm Apr 21, 2005 GMT

If you are planning to get divorced, you should reconsider.

Do you have any idea what a lawyer is going to cost you in the end?

What if your spouse sues your lover with whom you have been cheating with?

How much is it going to cost to maintain two households, instead of one?

What if your children blame you one day when they are unable to resolve their own marriage problems?

What if your children refuse to get married one day because their parents could not make a successful marriage?

Do you want to be responsible for robbing your children of one day enjoying a married life?

What if your spouse commits suicide, robbing your children of a parent?

What if your lover eventually leaves you?

If you are planning on getting married again, what guarantees that you can make this marriage work, when you could not succeed with the first?

Don't you think that is wrong to be so selfish and not consider that you will be affecting the lives of many more people other that your spouse?

How would you like to have all your dirty laundry hung up for all the world to see when the court reporter prints every sordid detail embelished with journalistic flair in the weekend newspaper?

Did you forget that you made a Vow before God to remain faithfully married for life?

Divorce is the PROBLEM, not the solution.

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